The Power of Defining Your Own Strength

Felina Garrett
Oct 27
2 min read

“I think every individual has his or her own power,

and it’s a matter of working, taking time and defining what that power is.”

~Queen Latifah, a Grammy - and Emmy-winning artist, actress, and businesswoman

The Power of Defining Your Own Strength

Queen Latifah’s career spans music, acting, producing and entrepreneurship. She’s broken barriers and re-defined what success looks like for Black women in multiple industries. From her early days rapping with flavor and purpose to becoming a Hollywood-recognized actor and producer, she has lived proof that owning one’s power is an act of both self-definition and resilience.

When she says that each person “has his or her own power” and that it’s a matter of working, taking time, and defining it, it’s an invitation. An invitation to stop waiting for someone else to validate your strength, and to begin actively naming, refining, and using it in your life and business.

Her message resonates for every woman navigating ambition, doubt, transitions, or latent dreams. It reminds us that power isn’t something only the few are granted. It’s something you discover, shape, and live out; on your terms.

Let’s Dive In: How This Applies to YOU

Recognize Your Unique Strengths
Often, our internal voice silences the truth of our capabilities because we’re trying to fit someone else’s definition of success. Latifah encourages us to name our power; whether it’s empathy, boldness, creativity, reliability, leadership, and to understand how it serves our goals, whether personal or professional.
Allow Time and Growth
Defining power takes work and patience. Latifah’s path shows us that evolving through seasons - from performer to businesswoman to producer was not linear, but intentional. In your business or personal life, maybe you’re planting seeds now that will bloom later. That’s valid.
Apply Your Power with Intention
Once you’ve recognized your strength and allowed it time to grow, the real transformation happens when you apply it. Maybe you’re stepping into a leadership role, launching a new venture, healing from earlier setbacks, or defining a brand. Use your defined power to act.
Lead by Example and Empower Others
Queen Latifah didn’t only define her own power; she made spaces for other women, elevated voices, and emphasized community. In your journey, inviting others to step into their power alongside you creates legacy, not just achievement.

Reflections for the Week

What strength do I already have that I’ve underestimated or avoided owning?
How am I dedicating time or space for growth and development of that strength?
In what action can I consciously apply my power this week - for myself and for someone else?